tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post6975003485227527314..comments2024-03-29T03:26:42.077-04:00Comments on Corinne Alexander: #Spanking Round Table: Where Does Your Spanking Fancy Come From?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02704111554102663421noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-56306426642801279472014-11-20T14:32:19.016-05:002014-11-20T14:32:19.016-05:00Reading Aubrey's comment reminds me of a thoug...Reading Aubrey's comment reminds me of a thought that escaped me in reading our posts this morning- ownership and humility aren't necessarily connected in my mind, so I don't see being an owned slave as necessarily being humbled. I've ran into this issue with some people in talking about my lived BDSM experience because I don't see my Master as being more than me, better than me etc... ie I'm not humbled by being submissive to Him because I chose to live in this consensual BDSM relationship.Joelle Casteelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06916035794147846651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-46285763089278974812014-11-20T10:59:49.391-05:002014-11-20T10:59:49.391-05:00Great point you brought up about humiliation that ...Great point you brought up about humiliation that leads to feeling humbled. I think that's a theme I've read often. And I completely understand the wanting to be made to submit. Aubrey Carahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10333014898721899603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-54556210710957627382014-11-20T09:14:04.268-05:002014-11-20T09:14:04.268-05:00so very true about semantics and personal opinion....so very true about semantics and personal opinion. I know that's a big thing for me in reading. Like when an author specifically uses humiliation and words related to it in her story- ie the HoH/Dom saying "This is humiliating" talking about a specific activity- that can be triggering for me.Joelle Casteelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06916035794147846651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-57608994021992782422014-11-20T08:58:50.890-05:002014-11-20T08:58:50.890-05:00Yes, I think when the humiliation aspect is being ...Yes, I think when the humiliation aspect is being used to humble as opposed to really embarrass someone then it is hot. Humiliation going hand in hand with submissiveness and all that. I get where you are coming from Corinne!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09958878959625455361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-59818602913561869002014-11-20T07:59:23.282-05:002014-11-20T07:59:23.282-05:00YES!
Exactly!.
Great post, Corinne.
YES!<br />Exactly!.<br />Great post, Corinne.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-80597200202975688462014-11-20T04:53:30.395-05:002014-11-20T04:53:30.395-05:00Excellent post Corinne! These are great questions ...Excellent post Corinne! These are great questions and I enjoyed reading your perspective. Totally agree with your summary. It comes down to how we each define these terms and the connotations we place on them.<br /><br />Hugs<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.com