tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post8541673401625158029..comments2024-03-28T07:18:29.520-04:00Comments on Corinne Alexander: Round Table Discussion: Role Play in a DD MarriageAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02704111554102663421noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-47765779305603277092013-10-09T08:52:41.872-04:002013-10-09T08:52:41.872-04:00Loved this, Corinne :) you express it all so well....Loved this, Corinne :) you express it all so well.<br /><br />Yes, roleplay is an outlet: a complementary dimension to a relationship; a fun, hot, intimate space in which to explore and simply <i>play</i>. And I think, quite beside the sexual pleasure that such play can provide, the act of escaping one's 24/7 reality for a time is itself a healthy thing to do. I think it satisfies a basic human need, in fact. So kinksexual roleplay is a double win! :DPenelopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00565114729355841150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-11988851259402823482013-10-08T12:21:17.867-04:002013-10-08T12:21:17.867-04:00I agree! While the serious side of DD is very impo...I agree! While the serious side of DD is very important to me the fun side is icing on the cake!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02704111554102663421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-15255782308374205372013-10-08T06:13:18.827-04:002013-10-08T06:13:18.827-04:00Well said Corinne! Role Play can definitely be a p...Well said Corinne! Role Play can definitely be a part of the fun and experimental side of a DD relationship dynamic!<br />Often people sharing about DD are too serious. Role Play can be a fun, sexy and exciting aspect to a DD relationship.<br /># MrBBSpanker MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-86875376592705797762013-10-07T01:00:36.215-04:002013-10-07T01:00:36.215-04:00Thanks, Celeste! It is great! I'm hoping that ...Thanks, Celeste! It is great! I'm hoping that we will start making a lot more time for them in the future. It's long overdue right now! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02704111554102663421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-18694897362179350472013-10-07T00:59:32.663-04:002013-10-07T00:59:32.663-04:00Thank you, Natasha. I am so lucky that he is willi...Thank you, Natasha. I am so lucky that he is willing to share my fantasies! He doesn't read the books, but he loves it when I read aloud to him a scene that is especially hot to me. He is always calculating how he can make it happen for me. I have a feeling our empty nester days are going to be HOT! This is a subject that I love and feel very passionately about, so I love that I am your go to person! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02704111554102663421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-86413321251433180022013-10-07T00:55:43.521-04:002013-10-07T00:55:43.521-04:00Thanks, Joelle! It was a lightbulb moment for us. ...Thanks, Joelle! It was a lightbulb moment for us. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02704111554102663421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-16153530850398860612013-10-07T00:55:02.115-04:002013-10-07T00:55:02.115-04:00Thanks, Kate. I really struggled with it for a lon...Thanks, Kate. I really struggled with it for a long time. I really needed our dynamic to be real. I wanted to be taken in hand in the truest sense. I think it takes a long time to work things out in your DD relationship to get to a point where you can try new things or things that may not have worked at a different point in your DD relationship. I think for us in the beginning we were already adjusting to our new roles (this was such a huge two steps forward one step back process) that it would have been very confusing & possibly counter productive for awhile. However, now it is so rewarding and really spices things up! It's exactly the thing that we needed to keep our marriage fun, happy, and healthy!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02704111554102663421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-29060492895354445532013-10-07T00:50:28.320-04:002013-10-07T00:50:28.320-04:00Thanks, Casey!! I collect pics like these. They ar...Thanks, Casey!! I collect pics like these. They are a big turn on to me. I am a spanko through & through. That is why we have to come up with these creative solutions. :-) Although, I have to say a real punishment spanking is a lot different than the fun ones. You quickly find out how much they have been holding back. Yikes! I have a feeling your hubby has been holding back a lot! It really is amazing to me how well DD works for a spanko like me. I feel so submissive after a spanking & re-connection. It works really well. You just have to find the right formula to fit your spanking needs and the goals you set out as a couple. Adding in role play to spice it up is so much fun and a wonderful reward!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02704111554102663421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-16854953364583313872013-10-07T00:46:09.056-04:002013-10-07T00:46:09.056-04:00Thanks, Tara! You know, all of these dynamics are ...Thanks, Tara! You know, all of these dynamics are exactly what you make them. They can be constructed to meet whatever needs you have. These dynamics can work in your relationship too as long as you don't try to mold yourself to them...you have to mold them to you! (DD, role play, etc...)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02704111554102663421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-54354608755337817132013-10-07T00:43:49.146-04:002013-10-07T00:43:49.146-04:00I thoroughly enjoyed your post, Joey! Yes, role pl...I thoroughly enjoyed your post, Joey! Yes, role play is very gratifying with or without a costume. Most often for us it is without a costume. We just make things up in the moment. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02704111554102663421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-20047534980866051242013-10-07T00:42:09.071-04:002013-10-07T00:42:09.071-04:00Thanks, Renee! It's all about balance (and fun...Thanks, Renee! It's all about balance (and fun!)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02704111554102663421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-13168893839256486422013-10-04T19:37:21.852-04:002013-10-04T19:37:21.852-04:00What a fun and interesting post. How great that yo...What a fun and interesting post. How great that you are able to play out all those scenes. :)Celeste Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17636997442600551241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-16151880214836703712013-10-04T18:52:59.936-04:002013-10-04T18:52:59.936-04:00You always have a unique perspective and can artic...You always have a unique perspective and can articulate so thoroughly Corinne. You are super lucky your fantasies became his - does he read our books by the way? Curious. Sounds like you've got a terrific balance going between you two and interesting how role play works in your relationship alongside the DD. You're my go to person on questions - you know that right?? :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07220029273749305283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-33743478178137276162013-10-04T15:51:24.800-04:002013-10-04T15:51:24.800-04:00how cool, figuring out how to use role play to wor...how cool, figuring out how to use role play to work on the balance in your DD relationship :)Joelle Casteelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06916035794147846651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-53782880484850370272013-10-04T13:18:04.109-04:002013-10-04T13:18:04.109-04:00Your post is really interesting and gives one a lo...Your post is really interesting and gives one a lot to think about. I would have the same initial feeling that you express that role playing would somehow diminish our "real" relationship. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04655242687657177295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-40515747075210775032013-10-04T08:33:07.775-04:002013-10-04T08:33:07.775-04:00Firstly, I love the pics! How lucky that your fant...Firstly, I love the pics! How lucky that your fantasies became his fantasies! I often wondered how spanking would work for a spanko in a DD relationship. I am such a spanko that I always feared if we did practice DD I would just be goading my husband into spanking me all the time. Thanks for addressing that. Sounds like you guys have it worked out!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09958878959625455361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-1468587130525882882013-10-04T06:05:39.785-04:002013-10-04T06:05:39.785-04:00Two thoughts - Now you're make me look at wha...Two thoughts - Now you're make me look at what I have been missing out on, and it's a really interesting take on the "Bratting" issue that I would never have thought of in a million years. Wonderful post Corinne. <br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05664433877029404270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-82747589643793079672013-10-04T05:59:29.827-04:002013-10-04T05:59:29.827-04:00Thank you Corinne. I really enjoy spanking role p...Thank you Corinne. I really enjoy spanking role play with and without costumes.<br /><br />Hug,<br />joeyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3631850716511295596.post-88474462751019476222013-10-04T00:35:09.790-04:002013-10-04T00:35:09.790-04:00A beautiful and insightful post. Yes, the "f...A beautiful and insightful post. Yes, the "fake it till you make it" thing makes perfect sense, and it also makes sense that in an established DD relationship, role play can become a more positive way to get the spanking you crave than acting out. Very well-articulated! Renee Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01414212384941364401noreply@blogger.com